I am very dissatisfied with the direction of this blog, or lack thereof. I have become unreliable in my musings and I am not that sorry. So today I compiled a list of quick tips from the Lindsay Logic Library. (Yes, I am nerdy enough to coin my own advice as such.) These are just some things that I have found to be either true, or crucial to life. Enjoy.
-Monday's are best handled with a stiff cup of coffee and a great pair of shoes. Also, the better your outfit is the more effective your day will be. Confidence is essential.
-Ranting is important, it is very therapeutic to yell and scream and cause embarrassment. Find a friend that allows you to behave childishly.
-The Starbucks on Scottsdale and Shea is impossible to get into. Avoid that location.
-Whoever said coined the "if life hands you lemons..." cliche should be shot. I cringe every time I hear that reference. Life just is. That's it.
-Movies lie. lie. lie.
-Rhett Butler does not exist. Anywhere. I have looked.
-Men act out of necessity, women out of passion.
-Don't let a man take charge of your happiness, that is entirely too much control for such a person to have.
-Infidelity is the ultimate fate of a restless partner.
-Curiosity killed the cat - and destroyed the relationship. What happened to monogamy?
-Confidence. Enough said.
-Happy hour is an important part of the work week. Find a bar and become a regular.
-If someone wants you in their life, they will make it happen. Force should not be necessary.
-Gabel's laugh is the cure for everything.
-Trust is crucial in any relationship - work, friends, and love. The loss of such is crippling and nearly impossible to rebuild. I have tried.
-People don't change. They evolve and adapt. Stop trying to turn monkey's into men - it should just happen.
-On the above note, don't change for some blockhead. He should appreciate your greatness as is. Otherwise, he most definitely is not worth your time.
-A person's dating history is like their credit report; don't be silly and ignore bad habits!
-Love doesn't happen just once. It is every day.
-Find freedom in independence.
-Smile.
-Listen to your mother, she has been around and can offer great advice.
-Marry your best friend. (Just a goal of mine)
-Live in love. Every day.
-Give back. It's a great feeling.
-Remember where you came from; your roots help to define character.
-Strive to make an impact in someone else's life. This correlates with giving back.
-Stop searching; You're never going to find it if you're looking for it.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
fated to pretend.
I am exhausted. I spent most of my night tossing and turning between lynard skynard lyrics and the obnoxious sound of my dog snoring. I was hot, I was restless - I couldn't flip the switch. As expected, the clarity of my thoughts became muted and I found myself wandering between impatience and insanity. (I really wish that I could leash these things, I feel I would be a more sound individual if I could just contain the high strung ideas that bounce around my head. Unfortunately for me, no such thing exists.) But in my madness I did come to one very solid realization: I am a product of my generation (how cliche!). I am pickled by the media and have a very unrealistic perception of the logistics of life. I think about point A and point B and spend little to no time calculating the distance between the two. I demand instant gratification; if I do not see results immediately I throw a fit and dictate blame. I wish that these little annoyances of my life could be bottled up and tossed into the waves. How simple would growing up be if the shitty things that make you crazy could just be shipped off to sea - fantastic, right? Too fucking bad.
At 2am I started picking apart love. Love is such a ridiculous thing to be wasting your sleep on. Except that I can't stop turning that thought - smoothing it over, pulling it to pieces, rebuilding its structure - I have given up and decided that I never will understand it. It came and I let it consume me: like locusts to a field I was devoured and left with ashes. Ashes that somehow are supposed to build my morale and prepare me for the next conquest of l.o.v.e I became stupid, made outlandish sacrifices and somehow went from being one very sane, very put together woman into my current state: the medusa haired potato lady. (I use this analogy because somewhere there is a large breasted woman laughing her ass off. Picture the potato that you seemingly forgot about until that day you rediscovered it growing tentacles under the sink. That is what I became this year - the spud covered woman that was left to her own craziness and demise. Pathetic.) So what happens next?
I feel so jilted - where is my Rhett Butler? Where is the man that comes and envelopes me in affection and adoration? And where the HELL is the man that thinks my childish giggle is cute and my high strung personality is fascinating? (I imagine that he somehow got lost in translation - his plane was delayed from Hollywood, I know he sends his apologies.) I guess these lessons in life are mandatory - 23 isn't supposed to yield a love of epic proportion. It is the age of learning these ridiculous rules and building that absurd thing my parents refer to as "character". At 23, I am expected to fall on my face and bear the scarlet letter of a shattered heart. Apparently it is a right of passage. Apparently cynicism is common in women of my character - apparently we are just tra-la-la-laing (thanks Jordan) through life on a magic carpet that will never land on the door step of any single/eligible twenty something man. No, this carpet just kicks me off into the wasteland of unavailable, unattainable, and completely commitment phobic men. (They're all really just frat boys dolled up in suits and ties) I really need to get my hands on a better flight itinerary.
At 2am I started picking apart love. Love is such a ridiculous thing to be wasting your sleep on. Except that I can't stop turning that thought - smoothing it over, pulling it to pieces, rebuilding its structure - I have given up and decided that I never will understand it. It came and I let it consume me: like locusts to a field I was devoured and left with ashes. Ashes that somehow are supposed to build my morale and prepare me for the next conquest of l.o.v.e I became stupid, made outlandish sacrifices and somehow went from being one very sane, very put together woman into my current state: the medusa haired potato lady. (I use this analogy because somewhere there is a large breasted woman laughing her ass off. Picture the potato that you seemingly forgot about until that day you rediscovered it growing tentacles under the sink. That is what I became this year - the spud covered woman that was left to her own craziness and demise. Pathetic.) So what happens next?
I feel so jilted - where is my Rhett Butler? Where is the man that comes and envelopes me in affection and adoration? And where the HELL is the man that thinks my childish giggle is cute and my high strung personality is fascinating? (I imagine that he somehow got lost in translation - his plane was delayed from Hollywood, I know he sends his apologies.) I guess these lessons in life are mandatory - 23 isn't supposed to yield a love of epic proportion. It is the age of learning these ridiculous rules and building that absurd thing my parents refer to as "character". At 23, I am expected to fall on my face and bear the scarlet letter of a shattered heart. Apparently it is a right of passage. Apparently cynicism is common in women of my character - apparently we are just tra-la-la-laing (thanks Jordan) through life on a magic carpet that will never land on the door step of any single/eligible twenty something man. No, this carpet just kicks me off into the wasteland of unavailable, unattainable, and completely commitment phobic men. (They're all really just frat boys dolled up in suits and ties) I really need to get my hands on a better flight itinerary.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
signs her letters in x's and o's
When I grow up, I want to do grown up things. I want a grown up job in a big, working in a grown up building. I want to talk about politics, international trade and global warming. I want to become educated on stock options and 401k investments. All the while, I will run the city in my Manolos laughing with all of my grown up friends. I feel like 16 was only yesterday, and yet here I am. 23 years old and still wondering, "am I an adult yet?"
I have been thinking a lot about responsibility, and the so-called "perks" of being an adult. According to my age, I should know a thing or two about managing my life in the up scaled, grown-up way. In reality? I don't know a damn thing. I fake maturity nearly every day; I work, I bank, and I enjoy cosmos at happy hour. I even have a weekly date with the dry cleaners - but beyond the bullshit, I am still just a girl playing dress up. I have accepted the fact that I am a poor decision maker (Because I HATE making decisions, and I have a hard time making commitments. Ick.) and as a result of this I find myself pressed to juggle the boring, yet fundamental and essential, aspects of life. (IE appointment planning, meeting deadlines, and organizing all of the above.) I often find myself facing ridiculous and completely STUPID problems. I asked a girlfriend recently if she though that other "adults" our age face similar problems. Her response? Probably not. Which got my mind rolling in another direction - do we create our own drama/anxiety/bullshit? ABSOLUTELY! Pardon the cliche, but shit rolls downhill and you can't run forever. At some point you have to stop and breathe and it is at that exact moment that the mound of avoided responsibility will seize you by the throat and drown you in consequences. My mother would call these spectacular displays of life "lessons in humility" - which I think is just a smug way of saying, "I told you so". Apparently the first rule of entering adulthood is learning how to prioritize responsibility. Funny, at what step do I learn the responsibility? I find the curriculum to be very exhausting.
I am still just a nerdy girl with glasses, standing on my tiptoes at the adult table. I giggle at everything and ask too many questions. I still use lip smackers chapstick and wear band t-shirts to bed. I throw temper tantrums when I don't get my way and I still think that underneath every layer of arrogance and selfishness lies a decent human being: I have faith in people. My view of the surrounding world is altered - like I am looking through a kaleidoscope. My reality is bombarded and sugar coated with my own wants, dreams, and perceptions. (Through my eyes, the world runs on high-fives and cherry coke.) Too bad I am not 13 anymore.
I have been thinking a lot about responsibility, and the so-called "perks" of being an adult. According to my age, I should know a thing or two about managing my life in the up scaled, grown-up way. In reality? I don't know a damn thing. I fake maturity nearly every day; I work, I bank, and I enjoy cosmos at happy hour. I even have a weekly date with the dry cleaners - but beyond the bullshit, I am still just a girl playing dress up. I have accepted the fact that I am a poor decision maker (Because I HATE making decisions, and I have a hard time making commitments. Ick.) and as a result of this I find myself pressed to juggle the boring, yet fundamental and essential, aspects of life. (IE appointment planning, meeting deadlines, and organizing all of the above.) I often find myself facing ridiculous and completely STUPID problems. I asked a girlfriend recently if she though that other "adults" our age face similar problems. Her response? Probably not. Which got my mind rolling in another direction - do we create our own drama/anxiety/bullshit? ABSOLUTELY! Pardon the cliche, but shit rolls downhill and you can't run forever. At some point you have to stop and breathe and it is at that exact moment that the mound of avoided responsibility will seize you by the throat and drown you in consequences. My mother would call these spectacular displays of life "lessons in humility" - which I think is just a smug way of saying, "I told you so". Apparently the first rule of entering adulthood is learning how to prioritize responsibility. Funny, at what step do I learn the responsibility? I find the curriculum to be very exhausting.
I am still just a nerdy girl with glasses, standing on my tiptoes at the adult table. I giggle at everything and ask too many questions. I still use lip smackers chapstick and wear band t-shirts to bed. I throw temper tantrums when I don't get my way and I still think that underneath every layer of arrogance and selfishness lies a decent human being: I have faith in people. My view of the surrounding world is altered - like I am looking through a kaleidoscope. My reality is bombarded and sugar coated with my own wants, dreams, and perceptions. (Through my eyes, the world runs on high-fives and cherry coke.) Too bad I am not 13 anymore.
Sunrise.
Sunlight slips slowly through chiffon,
blanketing my room in a warm crimson hue.
I spent so much time on those windows.
The light dances across mirrored surfaces,
pausing momentarily upon each
only to vanish seconds later.
You're not awake yet.
You're somewhere far away, and that small
smile that adorns your lips - your so soft
and lush and perfect lips - is a testament to your happiness.
And I can't help but admire this picture that you paint -
so soft, and flawless, and content - I am infatuated with
your beauty.
Your hair is curly now, unruly and natural.
Those ebony tresses cover the ivory linen like dark
chocolate;
cascading the perfect features of your face and your
pillow.
I smile, and count the freckles kissed on your nose
and across your cheeks.
You hate that I find them sexy.
You are so vulnerable, laying amongst down and silk
and so far away with your dreams.
Dreams that I know replicate me, our life, and our love.
You are so open with your adoration for me,
that the mere thought of this affection turns my cheeks hot.
Love is unknowing. It is raw, blind, and ignorant of
boundaries.
You are my living, breathing example.
Your innocence, it is perplexing, and fascinating
and real.
I envy you for this.
I want to kiss you, but in doing so I know that you will
wake 0
and smile, that smile that melts my soul and reddens my cheeks.
It is in sleep that I confide in you. I lower my guard and the wall
that I built disappears. In your sleep, I open my heart.
But the morning glare turns you restless, and slowly,
slowly you open those amber, almond shaped eyes.
And as your lips brush my cheek my wall returns.
Brick by brick, concealing my own vulnerability.
But tomorrow i only a dream away
and knowing this I smile.
blanketing my room in a warm crimson hue.
I spent so much time on those windows.
The light dances across mirrored surfaces,
pausing momentarily upon each
only to vanish seconds later.
You're not awake yet.
You're somewhere far away, and that small
smile that adorns your lips - your so soft
and lush and perfect lips - is a testament to your happiness.
And I can't help but admire this picture that you paint -
so soft, and flawless, and content - I am infatuated with
your beauty.
Your hair is curly now, unruly and natural.
Those ebony tresses cover the ivory linen like dark
chocolate;
cascading the perfect features of your face and your
pillow.
I smile, and count the freckles kissed on your nose
and across your cheeks.
You hate that I find them sexy.
You are so vulnerable, laying amongst down and silk
and so far away with your dreams.
Dreams that I know replicate me, our life, and our love.
You are so open with your adoration for me,
that the mere thought of this affection turns my cheeks hot.
Love is unknowing. It is raw, blind, and ignorant of
boundaries.
You are my living, breathing example.
Your innocence, it is perplexing, and fascinating
and real.
I envy you for this.
I want to kiss you, but in doing so I know that you will
wake 0
and smile, that smile that melts my soul and reddens my cheeks.
It is in sleep that I confide in you. I lower my guard and the wall
that I built disappears. In your sleep, I open my heart.
But the morning glare turns you restless, and slowly,
slowly you open those amber, almond shaped eyes.
And as your lips brush my cheek my wall returns.
Brick by brick, concealing my own vulnerability.
But tomorrow i only a dream away
and knowing this I smile.
Yesterday.
A thousand promises remain sewn to these lips -
words forgotten. Confessions and apologies bled
together in a mosaic profession of love. and devotion.
these promises, these fragmented utterances of exposure
echo through me, beating at my head. my heart.
my soul.
yet never straying from my lips.
their resonance is crippling;
their presence keeps playing this scene before me:
you are there and i am there and we are there at that place-
the place between yesterday and today
before the fighting and the resentment
at that time when all that was seen was you. and me.
and it was good.
i remember this: the air is thick with that new lust-
that lust that quickly consumed us and whispered life
into love.
that love that synced the beating of our hearts
and set blinders to our egos and to our fears.
i remember this yesterday, as it is still a part of me.
stuck far beneath the brigaded surface of spite -
the protective layer that still remembers.
these scenes are momentary, teasing memory
only for a second - promising encore, only to vanish
with that love.
that love.
that love that will never be.
These promises remain sewn to my lips, the words
that gave hope to a future, but remained silent to their
giver;
her pride too great, her remorse too heavy, and her heart
too bruised.
My eyes will not close, my lungs will not breathe
my screams will not deafen their mockery.
the last falls silent,
and gathering the shrapnel of this heart, my pride,
i turn to tomorrow and slip away.
words forgotten. Confessions and apologies bled
together in a mosaic profession of love. and devotion.
these promises, these fragmented utterances of exposure
echo through me, beating at my head. my heart.
my soul.
yet never straying from my lips.
their resonance is crippling;
their presence keeps playing this scene before me:
you are there and i am there and we are there at that place-
the place between yesterday and today
before the fighting and the resentment
at that time when all that was seen was you. and me.
and it was good.
i remember this: the air is thick with that new lust-
that lust that quickly consumed us and whispered life
into love.
that love that synced the beating of our hearts
and set blinders to our egos and to our fears.
i remember this yesterday, as it is still a part of me.
stuck far beneath the brigaded surface of spite -
the protective layer that still remembers.
these scenes are momentary, teasing memory
only for a second - promising encore, only to vanish
with that love.
that love.
that love that will never be.
These promises remain sewn to my lips, the words
that gave hope to a future, but remained silent to their
giver;
her pride too great, her remorse too heavy, and her heart
too bruised.
My eyes will not close, my lungs will not breathe
my screams will not deafen their mockery.
the last falls silent,
and gathering the shrapnel of this heart, my pride,
i turn to tomorrow and slip away.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Stripped and polished
I left my shoes on your patio. I gathered my belongings - handbag, lipgloss and heart - and left you for the evening. The day has painted itself into the vibrancy of my mind; the fertility of my imagination has begun to twist and morph your words into mutter. I feel they have become the tourniquet of my heart as their imprint brands me, and leaves me with a day to organize their meaning. I asked you about forever, and you responded with that wordless grin that so infamously distinguishes your character. You remind me of my immaturity. My imperfections. My earnest and overwhelming devotion. I feel that I look at you with the hopeful eyes of a child - eager. Expectant. You know me well, and manipulate my heart effortlessly. Your voice hangs like velvet, caressing my ears and pumping lullabies into my soul. I believe you. I listen to you. I love you. I close my eyes, and I breathe you. Questions burn deep; they scratch at the surface of my sanity and beg for release. Her presence has pickled my mind. I clothe the subject of my insecurity in trivial conversation. Conversation that pertains to anything and nothing at all. The anvil of deceit drowns me; it strips away faith and security and leaves me naked with my imagination. I fumble words, and trip over mistaken phrases. I scramble for the poetry that has become my adoration for you. But for once, language fails me.
I left my shoes on your patio - I just needed a moment to breathe. I would have lingered on your doorstep, but this evening is inviting my current state of confusion. In solitude, I meticulously arrange the thoughts that always seem to scatter in your presence. In solitude, I allow the notion of forever to tiptoe between those thoughts and pirouette its beauty from my lips. Whispered lullabies surround me and tame the wildfires of mistrust; I believe you. I listen to you. I love you. I close my eyes, and I breathe you. In the blankness of this night I feel you. Regardless of her presence - her name tattooed in my brain - the affection for you is apparent. It screams at you from the redness of my cheeks, from the brilliance of my smile, and from the softness of my kiss. My love is so obvious, and shameless. So now I ask you about forever, and at last you concede.
I left my shoes on your patio - I just needed a moment to breathe. I would have lingered on your doorstep, but this evening is inviting my current state of confusion. In solitude, I meticulously arrange the thoughts that always seem to scatter in your presence. In solitude, I allow the notion of forever to tiptoe between those thoughts and pirouette its beauty from my lips. Whispered lullabies surround me and tame the wildfires of mistrust; I believe you. I listen to you. I love you. I close my eyes, and I breathe you. In the blankness of this night I feel you. Regardless of her presence - her name tattooed in my brain - the affection for you is apparent. It screams at you from the redness of my cheeks, from the brilliance of my smile, and from the softness of my kiss. My love is so obvious, and shameless. So now I ask you about forever, and at last you concede.
Monday, June 1, 2009
'cause im free as a bird now
Today I am feeling indifferent. I started thinking about where the hell I am headed with my life - a thought that consumes an entire day and leaves me feeling even more angst and stubborn than I had originally planned. I would rather be knee deep in the waves on the California shores, or rocking out by myself to some obnoxiously loud ACDC or GnR. I would rather be screaming obscenities at the top of a roller coaster - I would rather be doing cartwheels in the sand.
Anywhere but here. So I do what I do best in these situations, I spill my jumbled nonsense into print. I have compiled a list of random things that make me happy (and some that really piss me off). I do this in an attempt assuage my apathy. If you are of the bored and unemployed - the people that really have nothing better to do than listen to the bullshit of an angry woman - please read on and find comfort in the realization that you're not the only disorganized individual residing in Phoenix Arizona - or wherever you live. Enjoy.
1. My father nicknamed my Ruby Begonia at the age of 3. I am sure he meant Scarlett Begonia, in which case makes me somewhat cool.
2. I ran into a wall at the age of 13 and broke my pinky toe. Even more hilarious, I had a cast up to my shin that I busted because I refused to stop dancing simply because some doctor ordered otherwise.
3. I am a dreamer; I have a lot of ambition and plan on slowly taking over the world. (Metaphorically speaking) I will have two Pulitzers at some point in this life and an outlandish collection of my bullshit in print - i.e ridiculous novels.
4. Writing is a huge part of my life. I have absolutely no organizational skills to apply to this talent, a defect that I am sure is holding me from my success. But I am stubborn and I continue to hack away at my dream.
5. I have problems with ignorance in people - I have been quoted saying that, "ignorance simply means that you're not smart enough to be stupid." I stand by that.
6. I fall in love with everything - everything is my favorite.
7. I come from a huge family but hardly stay in contact. This really depresses me.
8. I am ruled by my emotions; I am a very passionate person. I love and hate with everything that I have. I express my emotions openly, sometimes when unnecessary, but I am incapable of keeping my mouth shut.
9. I have the spirit of a child and I throw tantrums. I remain pissed for about 10 minutes.
10. I grew up on a farm, and I am proud of that upbringing. I am not kidding when I say, repeatedly, that I am a homegrown country girl.
11. I have an amazing child. He keeps me sane, most of the time, and is a daily reminder that hard work most certainly does pay off. Success is never free, but the payout is always worth the effort.
12. I want a busy lifestyle; I want to write and teach and pursue the creativity that I have been blessed with. I want to travel and experience every part of this world.
13. I also want to settle down and build a family.
14. I have never been prone to dating. I think it is exhausting and cumbersome and reaps little reward. If I don't like you, I don't call you back. I am turned off easily - I believe this is the reason I always seem to have epic relationships.
15. I am really into "epic" anything right now. I am sure I use the term too loosely and will soon become bored it.
16. I have been in love once in my life. Or I thought I was in love, I have since changed my mind.
17. Stress causes me to pull away. I push the people out and work alone to solve my issues. I hate asking for help.
18. I have dictionary.com text me the word of the day - this excites me. New vocabulary has become a highlight of my days. And this makes me sound very pathetic :/
19. I make a lot of faces. Unintentionally, I am sure it goes hand in hand with my habit of expression. I don't hide feeling well, if at all.
20. I talk a lot of shit. I am not good at pool, beer pong, or darts. But I am pretty damn good at convincing my competition otherwise.
21. I hate repeating myself.
22. I have a hard time dealing with the emotions of others (bizarre because I am so passionate).
23. I get mad when I feel I am not taken seriously.
24. I will give every person I meet a chance, sometimes two. Life is too short to be angry.
25. Though I am a little nutty, I feel that I am pretty diplomatic. I hate fighting. I hate arguing. I have a bad habit of letting my language take control of a situation, but I will almost always admit when I am wrong.
26. I have confidence in my nerdyness, weirdness, whatever you may call it. I know I am a little crazy, but that craziness makes me feel alive.
27. I lose interest in things sometimes too quickly. Good luck trying to change that.
28. I am a tough gal - I have overcome a lot of rubbish in my short 23 years. I embrace challenge and I thrive off of adrenaline. I feel that I am most productive in stressful situations.
29. I read more than any other person I know. I love literature for the language first, and then the story.
30. I am loyal. I am brutally honest. And I fight for what I believe in.
31. I get what I want because a.) I am stubborn and unrelenting and b.) I fight.
32. I love music, as most do. And I am open to almost every genre.
33. And I am totally the type to blast depressing, slit-your-wrists and cry your eyes out over a stupid boy tunes when I am blue.
34. I love to cook and I am pretty amazing at it.
35. Most days, outside of work, I can be found in cut offs and band t-shirt. I am a nerd.
36. I love hole in the wall bars.
37. I love to dance. I dance in the shower. I dance when I brush my teeth. I dance around the kitchen when I cook. I don't give a damn where I am, I dance. :]
38. I learned to ride a horse when I learned how to walk. I was raised in the rodeo arena and spent my toddler years romping through the dirt and bathing in buckets in the grand stands. I rode the hair off of any four legged beast I came in contact with (goats, sheep, horses, cows, dogs, etc.) - this is a lifestyle I lost after my parents divorced. Damn them.
39. I drop the "f" word a lot. Though far from classy, it remains one of my favorite words of the English language.
40. In all of the chaos, and drama that is inescapable in life I have learned this much: life is worth every drop of bullshit. It is worth the tears, the anger, and all of the negative things that change you. Cry and yell and cuss and throw tantrums, be stubborn and persistant and ambitious - don't skip a beat. I don't want to miss out on anything, I want to be apart of every new experience that presents itself IN my life.
I am sure this list is incomplete, and I will continue to add to it in the future.
Anywhere but here. So I do what I do best in these situations, I spill my jumbled nonsense into print. I have compiled a list of random things that make me happy (and some that really piss me off). I do this in an attempt assuage my apathy. If you are of the bored and unemployed - the people that really have nothing better to do than listen to the bullshit of an angry woman - please read on and find comfort in the realization that you're not the only disorganized individual residing in Phoenix Arizona - or wherever you live. Enjoy.
1. My father nicknamed my Ruby Begonia at the age of 3. I am sure he meant Scarlett Begonia, in which case makes me somewhat cool.
2. I ran into a wall at the age of 13 and broke my pinky toe. Even more hilarious, I had a cast up to my shin that I busted because I refused to stop dancing simply because some doctor ordered otherwise.
3. I am a dreamer; I have a lot of ambition and plan on slowly taking over the world. (Metaphorically speaking) I will have two Pulitzers at some point in this life and an outlandish collection of my bullshit in print - i.e ridiculous novels.
4. Writing is a huge part of my life. I have absolutely no organizational skills to apply to this talent, a defect that I am sure is holding me from my success. But I am stubborn and I continue to hack away at my dream.
5. I have problems with ignorance in people - I have been quoted saying that, "ignorance simply means that you're not smart enough to be stupid." I stand by that.
6. I fall in love with everything - everything is my favorite.
7. I come from a huge family but hardly stay in contact. This really depresses me.
8. I am ruled by my emotions; I am a very passionate person. I love and hate with everything that I have. I express my emotions openly, sometimes when unnecessary, but I am incapable of keeping my mouth shut.
9. I have the spirit of a child and I throw tantrums. I remain pissed for about 10 minutes.
10. I grew up on a farm, and I am proud of that upbringing. I am not kidding when I say, repeatedly, that I am a homegrown country girl.
11. I have an amazing child. He keeps me sane, most of the time, and is a daily reminder that hard work most certainly does pay off. Success is never free, but the payout is always worth the effort.
12. I want a busy lifestyle; I want to write and teach and pursue the creativity that I have been blessed with. I want to travel and experience every part of this world.
13. I also want to settle down and build a family.
14. I have never been prone to dating. I think it is exhausting and cumbersome and reaps little reward. If I don't like you, I don't call you back. I am turned off easily - I believe this is the reason I always seem to have epic relationships.
15. I am really into "epic" anything right now. I am sure I use the term too loosely and will soon become bored it.
16. I have been in love once in my life. Or I thought I was in love, I have since changed my mind.
17. Stress causes me to pull away. I push the people out and work alone to solve my issues. I hate asking for help.
18. I have dictionary.com text me the word of the day - this excites me. New vocabulary has become a highlight of my days. And this makes me sound very pathetic :/
19. I make a lot of faces. Unintentionally, I am sure it goes hand in hand with my habit of expression. I don't hide feeling well, if at all.
20. I talk a lot of shit. I am not good at pool, beer pong, or darts. But I am pretty damn good at convincing my competition otherwise.
21. I hate repeating myself.
22. I have a hard time dealing with the emotions of others (bizarre because I am so passionate).
23. I get mad when I feel I am not taken seriously.
24. I will give every person I meet a chance, sometimes two. Life is too short to be angry.
25. Though I am a little nutty, I feel that I am pretty diplomatic. I hate fighting. I hate arguing. I have a bad habit of letting my language take control of a situation, but I will almost always admit when I am wrong.
26. I have confidence in my nerdyness, weirdness, whatever you may call it. I know I am a little crazy, but that craziness makes me feel alive.
27. I lose interest in things sometimes too quickly. Good luck trying to change that.
28. I am a tough gal - I have overcome a lot of rubbish in my short 23 years. I embrace challenge and I thrive off of adrenaline. I feel that I am most productive in stressful situations.
29. I read more than any other person I know. I love literature for the language first, and then the story.
30. I am loyal. I am brutally honest. And I fight for what I believe in.
31. I get what I want because a.) I am stubborn and unrelenting and b.) I fight.
32. I love music, as most do. And I am open to almost every genre.
33. And I am totally the type to blast depressing, slit-your-wrists and cry your eyes out over a stupid boy tunes when I am blue.
34. I love to cook and I am pretty amazing at it.
35. Most days, outside of work, I can be found in cut offs and band t-shirt. I am a nerd.
36. I love hole in the wall bars.
37. I love to dance. I dance in the shower. I dance when I brush my teeth. I dance around the kitchen when I cook. I don't give a damn where I am, I dance. :]
38. I learned to ride a horse when I learned how to walk. I was raised in the rodeo arena and spent my toddler years romping through the dirt and bathing in buckets in the grand stands. I rode the hair off of any four legged beast I came in contact with (goats, sheep, horses, cows, dogs, etc.) - this is a lifestyle I lost after my parents divorced. Damn them.
39. I drop the "f" word a lot. Though far from classy, it remains one of my favorite words of the English language.
40. In all of the chaos, and drama that is inescapable in life I have learned this much: life is worth every drop of bullshit. It is worth the tears, the anger, and all of the negative things that change you. Cry and yell and cuss and throw tantrums, be stubborn and persistant and ambitious - don't skip a beat. I don't want to miss out on anything, I want to be apart of every new experience that presents itself IN my life.
I am sure this list is incomplete, and I will continue to add to it in the future.
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